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Sex & Intimacy

Desire doesn’t fade with time—it evolves. From keeping the spark alive to navigating intimacy at this stage in life, we’re diving into the conversations you want to have.

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Let’s Talk About (Not Having) Sex

Faith. Fantasies. Sex toys. Addiction. Loneliness. Cheating men. Body confidence. Bliss. Sisters get raw, real and revealing about celibacy.

The Slippery Slope Toward a Sexless Marriage

Ignoring a dry spell may lead to depression or divorce. Here’s why you’ve lost your mojo and what to do about it.

Date: February 21, 2024

Girlfriends Rarely Confide this Common Sexual Secret

When, where and how do you like to be touched? A sex therapist reveals a widespread intimacy issue we don’t hear discussed even among close friends.

Date: January 18, 2024

How to Talk to Your Partner About ED

Discussing erectile dysfunction (ED) doesn’t have to be weird; instead it can increase satisfaction and strengthen your bond.

Date: September 8, 2023

Is Your Sexual Esteem on 10?

If not, try these tips to become your most sexually confident self.

Date: May 26, 2023

Sex Pillows and Sex Blankets Are a Thing: 5 Ways They Can Help Boost Pleasure After 40

Don’t sleep on bedding options that might help you say buh-bye to aches, pains and stains, and hello to hands-free toy play, harder erections, better orgasms and more. Thank us later.

Date: November 11, 2022

Suffering Through Sandpaper Sex? 3 Secrets to Juicier Lovemaking

If your lady bits are painfully dry, here’s help to make sure you’re screaming for all the right reasons. Plus: Amp up your pleasure with this game-changing hack.

Date: November 4, 2022

Have Better Orgasms and Fewer Bladder Leaks — Using Your Smartphone!

These apps help you exercise your pelvic floor, perfect your form and track your progress, too.

Date: November 4, 2022

Real Talk From a Nurse About Below-the-Belt Changes That Happen As We Age

Even your girlfriends may not share what’s happening “down there,” but know that these 5 little surprises are common and not cause for distress. I’m in my 40s and starting to deal with them, too.

Date: November 4, 2022

The Secret Is Out: You Can Hire a Rehab Pro to Help Rejuvenate Your Lady Parts

Don’t be shy — you can exercise while clothed. And just as with physical therapy sessions to restore functionality to a shoulder or knee, the treatment may be covered by health insurance.

Date: October 14, 2022

The 6 Below-the-Belt Symptoms You Shouldn't Ignore

If you find symptom No. 4 in your panties, call your doctor at once.

Date: August 26, 2022

Keep These 10 Things Away From Your Vagina

No, seriously. To avoid irritation, infection and more down there, call these things a ‘don’t.’

Date: August 27, 2021

6 Ways to Have Amazing Orgasms at 40-Plus

Sex might feel different as we age due to hormonal shifts and more. Here’s how to enjoy.

Date: April 23, 2021

Your Sex Appeal Has No Expiration Date, Sis

Black women have an edge when it comes to body confidence as we age. 3 top docs talk sexual satisfaction, self-care and radical self-acceptance — gravity, grays and all.

Date: February 19, 2021

3 Yoga Poses for Bedroom Bliss

A certified instructor and meditation coach shares gentle exercises that can help with relaxation, body confidence, comfort, arousal and, she says, “yummy sex and self-love.”

Date: January 22, 2021

Can You Enjoy Mind-Blowing Sex As Menopause Approaches? Yes! Yes! Yes!

Hormone shifts can mean you’re irritated during intimacy, your desire dwindles or you pee when … uh oh! Top docs offer simple helps and hacks to get your mojo back.

Date: November 13, 2020

Libidos on Lockdown: ‘We Haven’t Had Sex in Weeks’

Therapists say that in this age of social distancing, more couples have become sexually distant, stressed out and resentful. But they have a plan to fix that.

Date: October 9, 2020